The following article gets a bit complex but also provides important information if you want to understand personality type in any depth. If you don’t understand what the eight cognitive functions are, please read about that first before you read the following. Otherwise, the following will be painfully unfamiliar jargon that will just frustrate and…

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I chose the image of Ganesh above because the statue represents a rich tradition and is also highly symbolic. INFJs lead with introverted intuition which specializes in the symbolic while ISFJs lead with introverted sensing which specializes in tradition. That’s both the conflict and the potential synergy available between INFJ and ISFJ types. Bear with…

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personalities

This is my brief personal experience of the different types and the roles they have played in my life. I am an INFP man, with an insecure attachment style, Enneagram 4. ESTP guys. They had fun making me miserable in high school and are the reason I avoid high school reunions. They are also the car…

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INFJ attractive

I’m an INFP married to an INFJ. We’ve been together for 11 years and I am crazy in love still. What is it about her that is so enchanting? She actually gets me. This solves my chronic INFP being misunderstood issue. When she doesn’t get me, she does her best to understand and usually figures it…

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ENFP intelligence

The public school system is often not kind to NP types. So, it leads some to question whether they are intelligent. My youngest son is an ENFP. I’m an INFP and his older brother is an INTP. Both kids have struggled in school, which can become a small black box that mercilessly tortures kids who…

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INFP gloom

Some INFP types find themselves in such despair that they ask, “How can I change my type? What contribution can an INFP type make in this world? ” We can’t change our type and I would argue that such INFPs wouldn’t want to once they learn the gifts that are inherent in being an INFP.…

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